Colorado woman helps families cope by crafting baby burial gowns out of wedding dresses

By Alexandra Zaslow

Sandi Fasano has been there for over 60 families during a time of pain — a pain she knows all too well.

After losing two grandchildren to stillbirth in the past few years, she decided she wanted to help families going through similar tragedies using her lifelong skills as a seamstress.

“I’m a mother, a grandmother, a great-grandmother,” Fasano, who is 66 and lives outside Denver, told “I struggled to help ease my children’s pain, but it did inspire me to turn it into something that would be able to help the next family.”

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Sandi Fasano creating an angel gown

So about six months ago, she took to Facebook with an idea she hoped might help grieving couples find healing: use recycled wedding dresses to create beautiful infant burial gowns.

Fasano learned to sew doll clothes as a child. As a teen, she designed her own clothes and later, when she became a mother, made outfits for her four children.

Within days of the Facebook post, she was receiving lace, ribbon and fabric from donors both locally and as far away as England.

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In August, Front Range Angel Gowns was born.

“What started out as a little project has now become way bigger than I expected,” Fasano said. “Once I saw all the beautiful threads and fabrics that were coming in, I had to keep going.”

Fasano’s effort is one of several aimed at turning old wedding dresses into burial gowns for babies. The NICU Helping Hands’ Angel Gown program offers similar services to bereaved families across the U.S., Canada and even in Australia.

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Fasano now has 20 volunteers helping her pick up gowns and take them apart. On her website, she offers instructions for donating wedding dresses and other materials as well as links for volunteer seamstresses and tailors to apply. The group can make anywhere from eight to 36 outfits from of one dress.

The company donates completed gowns to local hospitals and mortuaries in Colorado, and is in the process of trying to become a non-profit so she can expand to other states.

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A few families have called Fasano directly to ask for a dress for their sweet angel who didn’t get a chance to live.

“I recently met a grandmother whose daughter just lost a baby, and after I handed her the gown, we just hugged for a long time,” Fasano said. “There are no words to use.”

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In some cases, she includes something extra she hopes will bring comfort: two little hats.

A note with them reads, “One for your baby to wear and one for you to hold near.”

“These families are dressing their babies for the first and last time,” Fasano said. “I’m glad I can be there to help them through this difficult time.”

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