New website will give people ‘greater control over their death’

By JAMIE BULLEN

Greater control: Compassion in Dying said too few people are planning for how they want to be treated at the end of their lives
Greater control: Compassion in Dying said too few people are planning for how they want to be treated at the end of their lives

A website which allows people to declare how they wish to be treated in the final weeks of their lives is set to launch this week.

Compassion in Dying, a charity that supports people to exercise their rights over end-of-life treatment, said MyDecisions.org.uk will give people greater control over their death.

The group said the website was created in response to fears not enough people were planning for how they want to be treated in the advanced stages of their life.

A statement on the MyDecisions.org.uk homepage reads: “You might not like to think about it but there might come a time when you’re too unwell to tell those caring for you – like your family or a doctor – what you do and don’t want to happen.”

Anyone visiting the site can fill out an “advance decision” where users can refuse any drugs or medical treatments that may be given to them at some time in the future.

The document, also known as a living will, is legally binding meaning any healthcare professional that ignores it risks going to court.

The website also allows people to make an “advance statement” to declare preferences, wishes and beliefs for those who might have to make choices for them should they lose the capacity to make their own decisions.

According to research commissioned by the charity, only 4 per cent of Britons made a record of their preferences last year.

The website is set to go live on Thursday.

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10 Excuses You Tell Yourself Why You Don’t Need To Have The Conversation & 10 Reasons Why Those Excuses Don’t Hold Up

We did a survey in 2013 which found that “90 percent of people say that talking with their loved ones about end-of-life care is important yet only 30 percent of people actually have done so.” Clearly, knowing the importance of a conversation or behavior doesn’t always mean we’ll do it. How many diets and half-marathon training programs have begun in this vein? We know all the excuses a person is likely to tell themselves to avoid the conversation. Any of these look familiar?

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“I know my loved one well enough to make the right call.”

There are plenty of reasons to have the conversation with your loved one beyond your belief that you know what they would want. Having a specific conversation about they would prefer could bolster your confidence, strengthen their trust and reward you with a new sense of intimacy. The conversation could really surprise you. You might discover something about your loved one that you never expected.

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“I don’t need to have the conversation. I’m healthy and young.”

The Conversation Project is an initiative to encourage people to have these conversations before they are sick or terminal. If you’re healthy and well, it’s the perfect time to have the conversation. As we say, it’s always too soon, until it’s too late.

 

Excuse3

“If my loved one wants to have a conversation, they can come to me.”

This excuse is extremely powerful. It allows you to believe you’re up for the conversation while simultaneously avoiding it.. Don’t fall victim to this one. Your loved one might be thinking the same thing, trapping you both in a game of chicken, in which neither of you have important conversations about your health, your finances and your future because you’re waiting for the other to initiate it.

 

Excuse4

“I’ll just decide based off what I would want.”

This excuse provides false comfort. No need to have the conversation because you know what you would do for yourself. Right? But this method of avoidance leads to an improbable and unrealistic scenario. Even if you are the designated health care proxy that doesn’t mean you’ll be the only one who cares about the outcome. You might find yourself having to explain your choices to other family members, friends and caretakers. This might open up a disagreement between family and loved ones who believe the person in question wouldn’t want that. And you’d be surprised how many decisions you might have to make. Imagine what happens when you need to make a decision and you don’t know what you would want.

 

Excuse5

“It makes me uncomfortable.”

The thought of having The Conversation can make a lot of people uncomfortable. Understandably. You do have the right to live your life with minimal discomfort, but consider this: we’ve heard from a lot of people who wished they’d had the conversation, rarely those who wished they hadn’t. Knowing what a loved one prefers can give you A LOT of comfort during a time when you most desperately need it.

 

Excuse6

“I don’t want to encourage my death by talking about it.”

We work with many diverse communities of various beliefs, cultures, and faiths. Each has their own history, experience and theological lens through which they view death. Our mission is to ensure that your fears aren’t holding you back from a very real and human experience.

 

Excuse7

“I don’t want to offend my loved one.”

Death doesn’t have to be an offensive topic, and if your loved one perceives it to be so, maybe you can start the conversation there. Ask them why they find death so offensive. A simple question can lead into a complex and profound conversation.

 

Excuse8

“I don’t need that kind of negativity in my life right now.”

Having the conversation doesn’t have to lead to a negative experience. Many people who had the conversation describe it as a positive, freeing experience rather than a negative one.

 

Excuse9

“I don’t even know what my career path will be let alone what I prefer about my end-of-life  care.”

If you’re in your twenties or thirties, it can be particularly difficult to focus on your end-of-life care. You’re focusing on surviving the hardship of life post-college. We know the #TheStruggleIsReal. But while it’s hard to relinquish the coziness of childhood irresponsibility, you must. Get your affairs together: start that 401K, use sunscreen, stop eating take-out every night, and have the conversation with your loved ones.

 

Excuse10

“Why do we need to have a conversation? Can’t my loved one just write everything down?”

Modern medicine is helping individuals live longer than ever before, and with that extended time on earth comes increased medical complications and a lot more decisions to be made at the end-of-life. People will often say, ‘if I am ever like that – pull the plug,’ but there is often no proverbial plug to pull. Instead, there is a number of cascading decisions left for your loved ones to make. Talking through your values with your family can give them the guidance to navigate the health care options presented to them. Questions like: “What matters most to them at the end of life?” “Do they want to be at home or in the hospital?”  “Do they mind visitors?” “Who do they want to make sure is there?”  “Is there a book they might want read to them?” “Do they want music playing or a ball game on in the room?” These are the questions you might find yourself considering. Conversations are organic; they are interactive. This conversation isn’t just about answering a set of medical questions, but exploring all the avenues you didn’t think were possible.

So really, what are you waiting for? Check out our Conversation Starter Kit and have the conversation today.

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Dead man’s party

He didn’t die with dignity, but I celebrated anyway

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My father’s recent death was not beautiful, and neither were any of the other deaths I’ve witnessed of late. This has left me wondering about a better path. Death is not easy, to be sure, but these were made particularly painful by medical interventions—or perhaps I witnessed the confusion between saving a life and prolonging the process of dying.

So I threw a party. Or rather, I held my first Death Café, and it turned out to be a lively, invigorating affair.

In Europe, there’s a tradition of gathering to discuss important subjects—a café philo, for a philosophical café, or café scientifique, a scientific café, and now there are café mortel, or death cafés. A death café isn’t an actual place; it’s a temporary event in various locations, such as my home, complete with decorations and, in my case, a cake with “DEATH: THE FINAL FRONTIER” scrawled on top.

My gathering was comprised of spunky friends, all in our middle years, all of us healthy. As it turns out, this is the segment of population that most seems to care about shaping the end of a life. A Pew Research Center study found that less than half of people over 75 had given much thought to the end of their lives, and incredibly, only 22 percent of them had written down wishes for medical treatment. The same study, though, found a sharp increase in all adults putting something in writing (six of 10 of us), which indicates that percentage-wise, it’s the slightly younger folks who are preparing now for their inevitable deaths.

This does not surprise me. For the last 14 years, I’ve been one of the 28 million Americans currently helping someone die. Baby Boomers and Gen Xers are caught in an unprecedented tide of caretaking both children and parents (not to mention ourselves and our own aging bodies); we are the first generation to be caught in this particular kind of caregiving-and-slow-death crisis. With medical intervention and technological wizardry, we’re forced to make decisions about procedures and medicines and ethics as never before. And we find ourselves without much guidance in a culture that’s conflicted and confused about dying.

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Which is why we’re willing to talk. At my Death Café, I encouraged us not to focus on the deaths we’d witnessed in the past, but rather to speak of the deaths we want for ourselves in the future. Various results emerged. Half were afraid of the suffering that can precede death; half were afraid of death itself. Few of us had practiced death (“pretend this next breath is your last; what does that feel like?”), but all of us were convinced that doing so would only intensify and enlarge our lives.

The zeitgeist of this new movement is just now gaining momentum, but I can feel its strength and power. An unprecedented 66 percent of Americans now think there are instances in which doctors should allow a patient to die instead of doing everything possible to save that patient’s life. People would like to die—sometimes would like others to die—and this doesn’t make us morbid or crazy or unethical or mean. No. We are merciful and kind. We are as moral as we are mortal. We just want to know how to gracefully do what is going to happen anyway.

What lies ahead is unexplored territory, much like death itself, really. California recently passed “Death with Dignity” legislation, and the state representative in my hometown is reintroducing a similar bill in Colorado. Don’t get me wrong: I am all for funding research, finding cures and offering respite to caregivers. But it’s also our ethical duty to try for a chin-up, heart-steady end.

My father contracted pneumonia after 14 years of suffering with Alzheimer’s. He was given antibiotics and I was not in a legal position to object, but I’d have asked for comfort care only—not because I didn’t love him, but because I loved him enough to want him to have as natural and relaxed a death as possible.

Instead, I saw him grimace in pain and fear. I saw tubes and syringes and the sores on his body. I saw the family he’d worked so hard to create break apart under the pressure. I saw his blue eyes fade, and they taught me well: This could happen to you, too.

Death is perhaps the greatest mystery we face and the actual act of dying is the last physical act of our lives. We can strive to do it our way and to do it well. If anything deserves preparation, or some renewed clarity, death might be it. Which is why I suggest throwing a lively party.

Laura Pritchett is a contributor to Writers on the Range, an opinion service of High Country News (hcn.org). She lives in rural Colorado and her novel, Stars Go Blue, is based on her experience with her father.

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Prison hospice program blesses both the living and dying

BY PATRICIA GANNON

Hospice of Acadiana, whose volunteers include, from left, Martie Beard, Lyle Ann Hernandez, Ann Wallace, Lewis Bernard and Charlene Miller, annually visit state prisons to support inmates administering end-of-life caregiving to fellow prisoners.
Hospice of Acadiana, whose volunteers include, from left, Martie Beard, Lyle Ann Hernandez, Ann Wallace, Lewis Bernard and Charlene Miller, annually visit state prisons to support inmates administering end-of-life caregiving to fellow prisoners.

According to Luke 23:42, a thief crucified alongside Jesus said to him, “Remember me when you come into your kingdom” to which Jesus replied, “Amen, I say to you today you will be with me in Paradise.”

Hospice of Acadiana takes the verse to heart and annually sends volunteers to support inmates administering end-of-life caregiving to fellow prisoners.

Volunteers bring bags of supplies to their prison hospice counterparts, inmates taking on death watches in addition to other prison duties.

The bags are handmade by a Lafayette woman and contain a blanket, candy, snacks, socks and toiletries, all supplied by the volunteers themselves or by donation. The blanket doubles as a prayer shawl and comes with the blessing, “Know that even in the middle of the darkest night you are not alone.”

“We do continuing education, but we leave with more than we bring,” said Ann Wallace, Hospice of Acadiana volunteer director.

The volunteers mostly talk about hope.

“We try to talk about topics to help them be better volunteers,” she said. “It’s a very special program and they (inmates) have to apply. It’s an esteemed position.”

While Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola has the first and oldest prison hospice program in the state, the volunteer group also serves Dixon Correctional Institute in Jackson and Elayn Hunt Correctional Center and Louisiana Correctional Institute for Women, both in St. Gabriel.

There also is a hospice program at the B.B. “Sixty” Rayburn Correctional Center in Washington Parish, near Angie.

Started in 1997 by directive of Warden Burl Cain, who recently announced his retirement, Angola trained 40 inmates in issues that affect end of life and how to take care of fellow prisoners.

Hospice of Acadiana mentors from the outside.

“We talk about the four most important things,” said Lewis Bernard, a volunteer for 15 years. “I’m sorry, I love you, thank you, and I forgive you. We start with that.”

Volunteers from Hospice of Acadiana assist inmates in practicing basic care, helping the terminally ill to die comfortably and making sure inmates don’t die alone. They offer advice in all the aspects of social, emotional and physical care, including bereavement, spirituality and reconciliation with family.

Anywhere from 10 to 20 volunteers are mustered for the yearly visit in December.

“We put an email out that we’re going to the prison and ask who wants to come,” said Wallace.

“No one really knows until you experience it,” she said. “My Bible study group didn’t even understand.”

Whether they’re serving 10 to 20 years or life, the reality is terminally ill prisoners are not transferred out to die, and if family doesn’t claim them, they are buried on site in coffins made by prisoners.

“I remember one inmate saying, ‘I know I’m like a broken car, they’re going to fix me and I’ll run better,” said Bernard. “At St. Gabriel and Dixon, there’s hope.”

He said that’s not the case at Angola. “They (prison hospice volunteers) see their work as more of a ministry,” said Bernard, “You can’t be a wimp and do that work. They become the nurses. At the moment they die, nothing’s left but their relationship with God. They’ve been stripped of everything else.”

“It’s the way all hospice should work,” said Jamie Boudreaux, executive director of the Louisiana and Mississippi Palliative Care Association. “They are caring for their fellow inmates in a most remarkable way. For 24 hours they don’t leave their side. It’s one of the most incredible programs in the country. We have correctional officers who come to Angola to see it.”

Prisons in Louisiana have a particularly bloody aspect to their history, said Boudreaux.

“Angola is still a maximum security facility,” he said, “but there is a new level of cooperation between inmates and guards.”

According to Boudreaux, prisoners themselves notice a difference, a newfound dignity.

“It truly is the most transformative story I have seen in my lifetime,” he said.

The Angola hospice program is documented in “Serving Life,” a film narrated and produced by Academy Award-winner Forest Whitaker.

The film takes viewers inside Angola, where the average sentence is more than 90 years. With prison sentences so long, 85 percent of the inmates will never live on the outside again.

Charlene Miller, a 23-year volunteer, explained that before hospice, prisoners died in their cells or the infirmary.

“It’s something to see those big, burly men soothe the dying and pray with them,” she said. “It makes me feel good. I love it. It’s a privilege to be in on the last moments of their lives.”

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2015 is the year America started having a sane conversation about death

The American health care debate used to get bogged down in fights over rationing and “pulling the plug on grandma.” Not anymore.

by Sarah Kliff

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Earl Blumenauer had become accustomed to losing.

During the health reform debate, the Oregon congressman pushed a provision that would reimburse doctors for helping Medicare patients draw up advance care directives.

Blumenauer’s proposal quickly became the most politically toxic section of a law rife with contested projects and programs. It’s the part of Obamacare that Sarah Palin termed “death panels.” In August 2009, amidst ugly skirmishes at angry town halls, legislators relented. They left the end-of-life planning provision on the cutting-room floor.

“It was very difficult, in part because of the lingering death panel cloud”

But Blumenauer was undeterred. He quickly began lobbying the Obama administration to create the advance care benefit through regulations that Congress wouldn’t have to approve.

“It was very difficult, in part because of the lingering death panel cloud,” Blumenauer told me in a recent interview.

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The pocket card Rep. Blumenauer would hand out to White House officials.

Since 2009, Blumenauer has doggedly — and unsuccessfully — badgered any Obama administration member who might listen to his cause. But the White House, for five years, wouldn’t budge. Every year, it would put out the list of services Medicare would reimburse. And every year, advance care planning would not be on it.

Blumenauer recalled once attending a picnic at the White House — and pestering administration officials to take small cards he’d had printed up to summarize his case.

“At this year’s White House picnic, around the Fourth of July, there was some indications it could go our way,” he says.

On November 2, Blumenauer finally won: The White House finalized rules that will allow doctors to be paid for every discussion they have with patients about creating an advance directive.

The United States has — quietly and with little fanfare — begun to do something quite remarkable. We’ve started to have a more sane conversation about death, something that just this spring, as I wrote in a lengthy essay, seemed near impossible. That has allowed for significant policy changes that will, starting in 2016, begin to revamp the way Americans plan for the inevitable.

I’ve spent much of the past month asking legislators, doctors, government officials, and advocates about how that happened. They say health care became a much less heated topic. Doctors and patients, meanwhile, began to take a bigger leadership role. And the White House, cognizant of Obama nearing the end of its term, appeared to see a last moment for action — and decided to seize it.

“As a country, we’re more willing to have a conversation around the end of life,” says Kim Callinan, chief program officer for the end-of-life advocacy group Compassion and Choices.

Medicare spends billions on end-of-life care. But patients aren’t getting the care they want.

Fierce protests over end-of-life care broke out at 2009 congressional town hall meetings.
Fierce protests over end-of-life care broke out at 2009 congressional town hall meetings.

Dying in America is expensive. The 6 percent of Medicare patients who die each year typically account for 27 to 30 percent of the program’s annual health care spending. Medicare spent an average of $33,500 for beneficiaries who died in 2011 — four times the amount it spent on the seniors who lived.

Health care providers often make heroic efforts to save patients’ lives in their final days and weeks. The average Medicare patient who dies from cancer spends 5.1 days of his or her last month of life in the hospital. A quarter of these cancer patients are admitted to the intensive care unit over the same time period.

But surveys of patients with terminal disease suggest this isn’t what they actually want. One survey of 126 patients facing near death found they had five priorities at the end of life — and prolonging life was not actually among them.

Patients told researchers they wanted their pain controlled, a sense of control over their care, their burdens relieved, and time to strengthen relationships with loved ones. They also specifically did not want the “inappropriate prolongation of dying.”

A 2012 paper found that cancer patients who have less intensive care at the end of life — who have fewer hospitalizations and intensive care unit visits in their last week of life — report the best quality of life at the time of death.

In Washington, something so costly that leads to worse patient outcomes would be, in other public health programs, a no-brainer. But with end-of-life care, the opposite tends to be true: We can’t talk about the cost of dying because it sounds like a discussion about rationing. Taking cost into account feels callous and inappropriate in the context of death. For years now, that’s made end-of-life care an unapproachable topic on Capitol Hill.

That the already-polarizing health reform law included policy changes for end-of-life care certainly did not help matters.

“This was toxic for a while because of the gross mischaracterization of what we wanted to do,” says Sen. Mark Warner (D-VA), who has worked on end-of-life care legislation.

Warner, like many other legislators who work on the issue, had his own personal story of attempting to care a loved one — in his case, his mother, as her Alzheimer’s worsened.

“I was someone who was relatively informed; I was the governor of Virginia,” he says. “We knew something was coming, but we never had the conversation within our family that we needed to. This is an issue that has touched every family, and touched all the ups and downs of the health care debate.”

How 2015 changed the way America talks about death

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The first two attempts to pay doctors to talk about death started in Washington. And both were abject failures.

The first attempt touched off the “death panel” outcry during the summer of 2009.

The second came in the winter of 2010, when the Obama administration tried quietly slipping the new benefit into regulations that outline how much Medicare doctors get paid for various procedures. That approach seemed to work — until an eagle-eyed New York Times reporter noticed the regulatory bombshell and wrote a story for the paper’s front page. Within days, the Obama administration retreated.

“We were, to put it mildly, disappointed when the administration changed course at the end of 2010,” says Blumenauer. “Any poor soul who happened to be the secretary of Health and Human Services or high ranking at the Center for Medicare Services has heard from me about it.”

Any federal proposal to change the way Americans die was met with immediate skepticism and framed as a government takeover of health care.

This last successful attempt didn’t start in the White House. It didn’t even begin in Washington. It began far outside the Beltway, at the 2012 meeting of the Illinois State Medical Society.

That’s where two doctors from the DuPage Medical Society — which covers the county just west of Chicago — brought to the floor a resolution to ask the American Medical Society to create a billing code for advance care planning discussions. Somewhat confusingly, the AMA creates all the billing codes that Medicare uses, while the government decides how much to pay for each code.

“This was the voice of doctors saying, ‘We want this,'” says Scott Cooper, executive director of the Illinois Medical Society. “Because it came from physicians and was based on clinical experience, and not some policy wonk who had some idea in Washington. It’s an easier sell when you have the voice of the medical community.”

The resolution passed — and a handful of Illinois State Medical Society members flew to an AMA meeting in 2013 to deliver their request in person. They were successful, and the AMA created two codes.

“It’s not every day you just create a new procedure for Medicare,” says Cooper. “We’d never done it before. But this was relatively seamless and easy. It didn’t face any pushback.”

After that 2013 meeting, the billing codes existed — but Medicare never attached any money to them. If a doctor had tried to bill for an end-of-life planning discussion, no reimbursement would show up. Advocates pushed delicately on the issue, knowing that Medicare was a massive agency they had to work with on countless other issues.

“It’s not every day you just create a new procedure for Medicare”

“You don’t want to be put in this awkward position of pushing too hard against an administration or executive branch that has largely been doing many positive things,” says Peter Hollmann, a board member of the American Geriatric Society and a practicing physician in Rhode Island.

Medicare sat on the codes for two years. But in early 2015, rumors started to ripple through Washington’s health policy circles: This would be the year that Medicare started paying for end-of-life discussions.

The timing made sense: This was, arguably, the last moment the Obama administration had to create the benefit. If the administration waited until 2016, it would be making the change mere days before the presidential election — a risky time for any policy change. Late 2015 appeared to be the Obama administration’s last shot.

“People felt this was the last chance to do this,” Hollmann says. “No one knows what can happen in an election year, with the potential for shenanigans.”

On July 8, Medicare published draft plans to pay doctors to talk about death (about $80 for the first 30 minutes, and another $75 for an additional half-hour). The agency invited comments, which came back near universally positive.

“I am a healthcare professional in palliative care and advance care planning is critical to patients and their loved ones,” one doctor from California wrote in.

“Patients and families deserve to have realistic information provided by their doctors, rather than relying on their assumptions often fed by the popular media about what ‘life support’ and ‘rehabilitation’ can actually look like,” another in Oregon commented.

“Please add the codes below,” another Tennessee doctor requested, “so end-of-life suffering can be minimized.”

There was no outcry, and no doctors objecting to the new Medicare benefit. On October 30, Medicare made the decision official: Beginning in January 2016, it would pay doctors to talk about death.

“It’s a terrible, terrible way to die”

Brittany Maynard on her wedding day.
Brittany Maynard on her wedding day.

Much like in Washington, bills that changed end-of-life policy never had much luck in California before.

Advocates there, however, wanted to go much further: They had pushed legislation that would allow doctors to prescribe lethal medication to terminally ill patients — in other words, physician-assisted suicide.

But efforts failed in 2005 and 2007, as the California legislature rejected the proposal. Only small, decidedly liberal states like Vermont and Oregon seemed willing to pass those laws.

That all changed with Brittany Maynard, a 29-year-old who died in late 2014 from a rare brain cancer called glioblastoma multiforme. It’s a fatal disease that typically causes massive cognitive decline in the last months of lives. Patients can become unable to remember their own last names or to distinguish between a trash can and a toilet.

“My glioblastoma is going to kill me, and that’s out of my control,” Maynard told Peopleat the time. “I’ve discussed with many experts how I would die from it, and it’s a terrible, terrible way to die.”

Maynard looked at that future and made a firm decision against. She moved to neighboring Oregon, which allows doctors to prescribe lethal medications to terminally ill patients like her. Maynard used that law to take her own life on October 30, 2014.

Before her death, Maynard also recorded a series of videos imploring California’s legislature to pass a similar law — which would allow other Californians to choose the same death without moving hundreds of miles north. She recorded testimony that was presented to the legislature in March 2015 — five months after her death.

 

“Brittany helped normalize the discussion around end-of-life care,” says Kim Callinan of Compassion and Choices. “Here was this beautiful 29-year-old woman whom we could really relate to. Her coming forward helped transform the conversation that was taking place already, and raised the issue’s visibility.”

Compassion and Changes ran its largest-ever campaign for a state bill, putting a half-dozen organizers on the ground throughout the state. It had a watershed moment when the California Medical Association, which had opposed previous aid-in-dying bills, agreed not to take a stance on the new legislation.

Maynard’s illness caused the group to “start taking a look at our historical positions,” California Medical Association spokesperson Molly Weedn told me over email. “The decision was made to remove any policy that we had on the books that outright opposed aid in dying. We wanted to ensure that it was a decision made between a physician and their patient and determined around individual instances.

On October 5 — 340 days after Maynard’s death — California Gov. Jerry Brown signed Assembly Bill 12 into law. In one fell swoop, Brown tripled the number of Americans who live in states where doctors can prescribe lethal medications to patients whom they expect to live six or fewer months. In his signing statement, he cited the letters he’d read from Brittany Maynard’s family.

“I do not know what I would do if I were dying in prolonged and excruciating pain,” Brown wrote. “I am certain, however, that it would be a comfort to be able to consider the options afforded by that bill. And I won’t deny that right to others.”

A saner approach to death in 2016?

In some ways, the 2015 changes to end-of-life policy in America were large. Medicare didn’t pay doctors to talk about death. Now it does. This year, 13.7 million people live in places where it’s legal for physicians to help terminally ill patients end their lives. Next year, that number will jump to 52.2 million people.

But in other ways, these changes are still quite small. Data from Oregon suggests that the number of people who use the California law, for example, will be relatively small. And advocates for end-of-life care planning see much work to do when it comes to ensuring that Americans’ preferences for care at the end of life are met.

Lee Goldberg directs Pew Charitable Trusts’ improving end-of-life care project, and he sees the new Medicare benefit as a first step rather than an end goal. There’s work to be done to ensure that doctors are equipped to have these conversations — and that patient preferences that do get recorded are easily accessible when patients have emergency situations.

“The odds are no better than chance right now, so that’s a big challenge, making sure this patient data is available when it’s needed,” he says.

Goldberg and others see 2015 as something akin to a proof of concept: proof that the American political system and state governments can pursue changes to end-of-life care policy without getting shouted down about death panels and rationing. This doesn’t guarantee future change but at least allows for the possibility. Because in 2015, it wasn’t impossible for Blumenauer to get the administration to pay attention to his pocket cards.

“It does wear you down sometimes,” he says of sticking with the issue for so long and seeing so little progress until now. “How many times do you answer the same questions on something that seems so compelling, and every year have the answer be no? But every year the case became stronger, and that’s more difficult to say no to.”

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Sherwin Nuland on the Art of Dying and How Our Mortality Confers Meaning Upon Our Lives

“The greatest dignity to be found in death is the dignity of the life that preceded it.”

 

 
“To lament that we shall not be alive a hundred years hence, is the same folly as to be sorry we were not alive a 005hundred years ago,” Montaigne wrote in his timeless meditation on death and the art of living. And yet in the half millennium since his day, we’ve made paltry progress on coming to such nonchalant terms with the reality of death. We are still profoundly unpreparedwhen it strikes our loved ones and paralyzed by the prospect of our own demise. Our discomfort with “the idea of a permanent unconsciousness in which there is neither void nor vacuum — in which there is simply nothing” is what surgeon, bioethicist, essayist, and Yale professor Sherwin Nuland(1930–2014) explores with astonishing wisdom and sensitivity in his soul-stretching 1993 book How We Die: Reflections on Life’s Final Chapter (public library) — a dimensional treatise on death and an effort to “demythologize the process of dying,” fusing philosophical reflections on its most universal aspects with the specialized complexities occasioned by the six most common disease categories implicated in modern death.

But Nuland’s hard-earned professional expertise, his life’s work in medicine and understanding the human condition, is merely the byproduct of his unforgiving personal brush with death — Nuland lost his mother to colon cancer a week after his eleventh birthday, a tragedy that shaped his life. “All that I have become and much that I have not become, I trace directly or indirectly to her death,” he reflects. This book itself was written less than a year after Nuland lost his brother to the same disease that had claimed their mother’s life.

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Nuland writes:

Everyone wants to know the details of dying, though few are willing to say so. Whether to anticipate the events of our own final illness or better to comprehend what is happening to a mortally stricken loved one… we are lured by thoughts of life’s ending… To most people, death remains a hidden secret, as eroticized at it is feared. We are irresistibly attracted by the very anxieties we find most terrifying; we are drawn to them by a primitive excitement that arises from flirtation with danger. Moths and flames, mankind and death — there is little difference.

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As with every other looming terror and looming temptation, we seek ways to deny the power of death and the icy hold in which it grips human thought.

Throughout history, he observes, our strategies for ameliorating that icy hold have varied, from mythology to humor to religion, but the past few decades have given us a wholly new phenomenon, one he dubs “modern dying” — a sort of packaged experience that takes place at the hospital, where we try to artificially enact the ancient ideal of ars moriendi, or the art of dying. Reflecting on his extensive work with dying patients, Nuland considers the impossibility of that ideal in a modern context:

The good death has increasingly become a myth. Actually, it has always been for the most part a myth, but never nearly as much as today. The chief ingredient of the myth is the longed-for ideal of “death with dignity.”

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The belief in the probability of death with dignity is our, and society’s, attempt to deal with the reality of what is all too frequently a series of destructive events that involve by their very nature the disintegration of the dying person’s humanity. I have not often seen much dignity in the process by which we die… Only by a frank discussion of the very details of dying can we best deal with those aspects that frighten us the most. It is by knowing the truth and being prepared for it that we rid ourselves of that fear of the terra incognita of death that leads to self-deception and disillusions.

And yet despite lamenting the illusory mythology of dying with dignity, Nuland’s perspective is ultimately an optimistic one, reframing the source of dignity in death rather than denying it altogether, and doing so in wonderfully poetic terms:

The greatest dignity to be found in death is the dignity of the life that preceded it. This is a form of hope that we can all achieve, and it is the most abiding of all. Hope resides in the meaning of what our lives have been.

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But our greatest act of hope in dying, Nuland argues, is the dissolution of our illusion of separateness. He writes:

The real event taking place at the end of our life is our death, not the attempts to prevent it. We have somehow been so taken up with the wonders of modern science that our society puts the emphasis in the wrong place. It is the dying that is the important thing — the central player in the drama is the dying man: the dashing leader of that bustling squad of his would-be rescuers is only a spectator, and a groundling at that.

Reflecting on the commonly documented medical fact that the dying can often survive for weeks beyond their prognosis, sustained merely by the hope to live until a specific moment of significance — a daughter’s wedding, a grandchild’s graduation — Nuland calls to mind Rilke’s famous lines of verse (“Oh Lord, give each of us his own death / The dying, that issues forth out of the life / In which he had love, meaning and despair”) and considers the true source of hope:

For dying patients, the hope of cure will always be shown to be ultimately false, and even the hope of relief too often turns to ashes. When my time comes, I will seek hope in the knowledge that insofar as possible I will not be allowed to suffer or be subjected to needless attempts to maintain life; I will seek it in the certainty that I will not be abandoned to die alone; I am seeking it now, in the way I try to live my life, so that those who value what I am will have profited by my time on earth and be left with comforting recollections of what we have meant to one another… Whatever form it may take, each of us must find hope in his or her own way.

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Nuland turns to the heaviest burden in dying, the feeling of regret over “conflicts unresolved, breached relationships not healed, potential unfulfilled, promises not kept, and years that will never be lived.” But even in this despairing proposition, he finds an unlikely and rather beautiful source of hope. Subverting Viktor Frankl’s famous formulation of the oft-repeated idea that we should live each day as if it were our last — “Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!” Frankl wrote in his spectacular memoir about the search for meaning — Nuland finds consolation in a heartening mirror-image interpretation:

Perhaps the mere existence of things undone should be a sort of satisfaction in itself, though the idea would appear to be paradoxical. Only one who is long since dead while still seemingly alive does not have many “promises to keep, and miles to go before I sleep,” and that state of inertness is not to be desired. To the wise advice that we live every day as though it will be our last, we do well to add the admonition to live every day as though we will be on this earth forever.

He returns to the hard ideal of ars moriendi, now enveloped in this newfound softness:

Since human beings first began to write, they have recorded their wish for an idealized ending some call the “good death,” as if any of us can ever be sure of it or have any reason to expect it. There are pitfalls of decision-making to be sidestepped and varieties of hope to seek, but beyond that we must forgive ourselves when we cannot achieve some preconceived image of dying right.

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But perhaps Nuland’s most salient point has to do with the necessity of death as a force of nature’s forward momentum — an idea partway between evolutionary theory and the Japanese concept of wabi-sabi, with a touch of Alan Watts. He writes:

We die so that the world may continue to live. We have been given the miracle of life because trillions upon trillions of living things have prepared the way for us and then have died — in a sense, for us. We die, in turn, so that others may live. The tragedy of a single individual becomes, in the balance of natural things, the triumph of ongoing life.

In that sense, the dignity of death is indeed the dignity of life, and our only responsibility in dying well is having lived well:

The dignity that we seek in dying must be found in the dignity with which we have lived our lives. Ars moriendi as ars vivendi: The art of dying is the art of living. The honesty and grace of the years of life that are ending is the real measure of how we die. It is not in the last weeks or days that we compose the message that will be remembered, but in all the decades that preceded them. Who has lived in dignity, dies in dignity.

How We Die is a timelessly wonderful read in its entirety. For a necessary counterpart, see Meghan O’Rourke’s beautiful memoir of grief and learning to live with loss.

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Palliative and End of Life Care

By Ellen Fink-Samnick

Palliative and End of Life Care

We all know the cost of care at the end of life (EOL) tends to be needlessly wasteful. And we know that, too often, the wishes of patients are ignored, or worse, unknown. As the healthcare system adopts a patient-centered approach, it is important we ask every dying patient and their family what they want. When we do, we find that most would say they want less care and more quality of life in their final days. This is especially pressing today for three reasons

1. There is heightened emphasis on palliative and EOL care, in part, because of Institute of Medicine’s report last year, Dying in America: Improving Quality and Honoring Individual Preferences Near the End of Life1. In it, experts on death and dying made bold recommendations about how hospitals and healthcare professionals should address palliative and EOL care.

2. Officials from the federal Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, Baltimore, said, in July, it would pay physicians to conduct EOL counseling and start a pilot project to pay for hospice care and treatment instead of one or the other. At the end of the four-year project, CMS will evaluate whether it’s better to continue the current form of reimbursement or pay for both.

In this new program, 150,000 dying patients on Medicare will be allowed to choose hospice care to manage pain and suffering, get EOL counseling and medical treatments – including hospitalization – to help them battle illnesses, according to The New York Times2. Research shows that patients, who get palliative care and traditional medical care, have better quality of life and less intense medical care, resulting in lower costs, the newspaper reported.

It’s likely that CMS officials know that providing appropriate care for dying Medicare patients could control some of the steep EOL costs when the healthcare system does what it normally does: provide heroic measures to keep patients alive whether they want or need that.

In a study published in Health Affairs3, researchers at the Brookdale Department of Geriatrics and Palliative Medicine at Mount Sinai, New York, showed considerable savings when patients with terminal illness are enrolled early in palliative and EOL care programs.

If 1,000 Medicare beneficiaries are enrolled in hospice within 15 to 30 days before death, CMS could save more than $6.4 million and those patients would be spared 4,100 hospital days. If 1,000 dying Medicare patients enrolled in hospice within 53 to 105 days before death, the savings would be more than $2.5 million, adds the study.

3. Brittany Maynard put the importance of end of life care into the news last year. The 29-year-old newly married teacher and resident of California became interested in assisted suicide after her diagnosis with terminal brain cancer in 2013. Under California law, this option wasn’t available. So, she and her husband rented a home in Oregon, which allows assisted suicide. A year later, at least 13 states are pursuing what is called “death with dignity” legislation. Oregon, only Montana, New Mexico, Vermont, and Washington State currently have such laws.

Given these significant developments, it may be more important than ever for healthcare professionals to ask what patients want in terms of palliative and EOL care. When we fail to ask, we are, by definition, no longer providing patient-centered care. Instead, we’re doing what the healthcare system has always done: provide lots of care whether it meets patient needs or not and wasting precious resources in the process.

Fixing this problem shouldn’t be that difficult. We simply need to make sure we’re delivering patient-centered care. To do that, we need to ensure the patient and family are fully engaged in care delivery. But, as we have seen in the past, members of the care team may not be prepared to talk about death and dying. After all, most went to school to learn to care for the living and keep them alive.

Has the care team talked with the patient about what he or she wants? If there was such a conversation, was the family included? Did the care team discuss what the patient wants without the patient being present?

The patient-engagement step is easy to overlook. Healthcare providers, not trained to talk about death and dying, don’t know how to do it; or believe it’s someone else’s job. So, the first step is to ensure that someone lets the hospital or health system know what the patient wants. In many facilities, this falls to the case manager or social worker who ensures the patient gets what he or she needs from the health system.

James McGregor, MD, an expert in palliative and end of life care and senior medical director for Sutter Health, Sacramento, Calif., says, “Addressing the full spectrum of psychosocial, emotional, physical and spiritual needs helps to raise patient and family satisfaction and prolong life. Patients and family members often have questions about palliative and EOL care and need someone to answer them.”

Those who work in palliative and EOL know the value of engaging patients and their families to guide them through these difficult times, explaining an illness and planning. And, they are likely to create a more sustainable healthcare system.

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