Betsy Trapasso (CQ), center who describes herself as an, “end of life guide,” speaks about death as Leszek Burzynski (CQ), right, and Julianne Reynolds, left, listen at the first Los Angeles Death Cafe at Trapassos’s home in Topanga, Ca. on March 24, 3013. Betsy nick name is Spooky.The idea is to allow people to talk a bout death a subject they usually avoid. It is not a therapy or grief session but a discussion. The idea started in England and has now become a movement.